In 2019, only 27% of men said they avoided one-on-one meetings with female colleagues; in 2018, it was a whopping 41%. (Photo: Shutterstock)
Let us not underestimate the wisdom of Mike Pence. Not only can he teach us about the essential art of sucking up (he made his boss very happy recently by staying at a Trump property in Ireland, even though it added hours of travel to his meeting place), he's the oracle of gender relations in the workplace.
You remember the Mike Pence rule, right? You know all that stuff about how Pence avoids being alone with a woman and how he never attends social events where alcohol is served without his wife? Oh, how quaint and silly was that?
Here are two depressing highlights, comparing 2019 with 2018 responses, based on data from 152 men and 303 women in a range of industries:
- 19% of men were reluctant to hire attractive women; in 2018, it was 16%.
- 21% of men were reluctant to hire women for jobs involving close interpersonal interactions such as travel; in 2018, it was 15%.
So not to make you feel you're living in 1965, there was some progress. For instance, in 2019, only 27% of men said they avoided one-on-one meetings with female colleagues; in 2018, it was a whopping 41%.
But before you cheer that change, let this sink in: having 27% of men fearing being alone with a woman in a work context still stinks. Considering it's 2019, it's frick'n unbelievable.
|Vexing gender lines
What intrigued (and disturbed) me were the responses from women. The 2018 women responses (the women's 2019 responses have not come out) show how much women have internalized and accepted the #MeToo backlash — sometimes even more than men:
- 15% of women said that they'd hesitate about hiring women for jobs that require close interactions with men, such as travel (same rate for men that year).
- 43% of women said that the more women who come forward about sexual harassment, the more likely it will be that men blame women for the problem, while only 30% of men thought so.
- 44% of women agreed that men will more likely exclude women from social interactions, while only 22% of men thought so.
- 57% of women said men will be more reluctant to have one-on-one meeting with women alone, while only 41% of men thought so.
And here's the big bummer: 11% of women said they'd be reluctant to hire attractive women! So much for sisterhood!
It's almost as if women are unwittingly participants of the #MeToo backlash. If we expect the worst — that there's hell to pay — are we helping to make it a self-fulfilling prophecy?
I don't know what the solution to the #MeToo backlash is, except to ride it out and press on.
In the meantime, though, may I make one simple suggestion? Let's assume there will always be Mike Pences out there, but let's not assume that they rule the world. OK?
This article first published on our sister site, law.com. Contact Vivia Chen at [email protected]. On Twitter: @lawcareerist.
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Vivia Chen
Vivia Chen is a senior columnist at The American Lawyer and the creator of The Careerist blog.
